This one thought changed the course of my life
This Summer has been intense AF. Eclipse season, 6 planets in retrograde and portals opening. Woah. Unhealed wounds from the past have been brought to the surface demanding to be seen. I’ve heard from many of you, “I haven’t been able to stop crying and I’m not a crier!” If you’ve felt the intensity, you are not alone! I’ve been so dedicated to my own healing and moving through what has been arising that I literally missed summer! And tomorrow it’s September, WTF?!?
When I look back at this time last year I am astonished by the woman I have become.
This time last year I was paralyzed with not knowing if I should go or stay in my relationship of 5 years. This not knowing consumed me. I gained weight and numbed out with wine and Netflix every night. I had a vision of the woman I wanted to be and while I was partially living it, I knew I was meant for more.
So I left. Walked away from the guy I loved. Chose the unknown and myself over the safe life I had created.
I’ve been on a journey of self-discovery for about 9 years now. But the last year has been by far the most expendential year of growing, healing and expanding.I’ve moved through my core abandonment wounds, found the confidence to let myself be seen, and took back control of my life by falling in love with my shadow side.To say I’m not the same woman I was a year ago is an understatement. This Emily would NEVER put up with or settle for the shit I did a year ago!
What shifted? What happened to ignite my radical evolution?
One thought happened … to create a new life you’re going to have to become someone you’ve never been before.
This thought came to me and I knew I needed to listen to it like my happiness depended on it. So I got out my journal and brainstormed, who do I need to become? Things that came to mind… I need to become a woman who always listens to her intuition, I need to become a woman who does not take things personally, I need to become a woman who doesn’t hold back in any aspect of her life, and on and on my list went. And then I got to work by taking action steps to become this woman! Next week I will share the programs, people and books that have been integral to my healing and evolution over the last year, but for now I invite you to go answer the following questions:
Are you happy and at peace with your life just as it is?
Do you want to create a new life or make changes?
What changes would you like to make?
Who do YOU need to become to create this new life or make changes?
What kind of woman do you want to be?
What do you need to do to become this woman?
What are you willing to give up to live this life and become this woman?
After you’ve spent some time with the questions I invite you to take action. Just one little baby step will do to get you moving forward. And then another baby step, and another, and so on...If you’re ready to get support on your journey of becoming the woman you were born to be The Revolutionary Woman begins in September.The Revolutionary Woman is a guided 9 month journey of radical transformation and deep soul discovery. It’s a journey home to your truest, most authentic, liberated self. Click here to learn more. It’s going to be fucking magical. And Sister, please know this, I know the last few months have been hard. The energies have been intense AF but we are collectively in this together. Deep breaths. Deep breaths.
xo,
Em
